Howdy,
I try really hard to not be a victim, not be a whiner, not be a person who cries on my blog about the pain and suffering I endure daily from surviving an almost fatal car accident while riding as passenger. I try really hard to keep my blog positive and stay focused to my purpose of creating the Donkey Whisperer Farm website and blog, sharing my belief in Jesus Christ. Helping the donkeys, mules and horses have a better life showing people resistance free training (without pain) is not only possible it is the best way to train equine this is indeed my purpose.
Our attitude is probably one of the most important things we can change; also one of the most difficult to change when enduring pain and suffering. If we can learn to control our attitude we can create a massive chain reaction moving us into the life we want to create, share, enjoy and pass down as our legacy after we leave these human bodies. I cry out for GOD to help me change my attitude as I don’t believe I am strong enough to tackle my attitude without Jesus Christ helping me. Each of us has one life to live and it is our responsibility as adults to figure out our special gifts and talents and enjoy what we are given no matter how unfair it all seems.
Sadly I suffer from chronic pain daily, hourly since the almost fatal car accident in the spring of 2010. I just don’t understand why any person should have to have this kind of pain and suffering day in and day out. Praying GOD releases me from pain and heals my body to 100% restoration, for now I must keep my head up and live life grateful most days I am pretty good. I am indeed a reminder to never invoke pain and suffering on any human or animal is truly awareness that I am trying to teach with GOD’s help I have indeed touched you in some way. You will then make an attitude change and stop abuse of humans and animals as each of us is exactly in the right place to help others enjoy life. Speake up and stop abuse.
Yesterday was a hard day had another back spasm so bad again and I really don’t know why. The metal in my pelvis messes everything up when I walk, bend, sit and stand and yet without the metal in my pelvis I would surely not be able to walk so it is a double edge sword one I work on mentally every single hour I am awake.
Writing is very therapeutic as it helps get all the feelings out of my body, sharing my emotions, thoughts and belief for the entire world to read has not easy for me. I share these very personal feelings in hopes my pain and suffering helps another human or animal not suffer so much. GOD uses everything negative to help others and I pray my transparency helps you and gives you the courage to enjoy your life and push past the fears that are holding you back to enjoy this precious life.
Each of us has the same amount of time in each day and yet some people complete so very much more than others. These are the interesting and perplexing thoughts that come into my mind all the time. If you have survived trauma GOD has a reason to keep you here on earth. GOD uses each of us to be a light in the dark for others. Never forget that GOD is good and he wants all his children to surrender to him with a simple prayer.
Ok one more thing; please never ever abuse your donkey, horse or mule. Here is a very inspirational video of a man training a mammoth donkey with no bit in the mouth. This was my dream to train Rio to ride with no bit in his mouth. Please understand pain is not the answer to training horses, mules and donkeys. Take the time it takes to train your equine after all you are the smart human they are just domesticated animals forced to live in the environment you created for them.
Be grateful for your life and what GOD has given you! Do not treat your animals like prisoners in lieu of a partner. If your horse, donkey or mule won’t come to you when you step into their world perhaps it’s time for you to figure out why? Sounds like a relationship problem and guess what outstanding relationships take time, prayer and patience.
GOD bless you and your family two and four-legged!
Melody
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A Single Parent's Life
February 6, 2012 at 1:01 am
I can no imagine how you most feel or what you go threw each day. I was in a accident that totaled my car but not near what yours was. It did leave lasting damage to my right shoulder and neck and upper back area. That of course now effects the left side also because once one side moves around it lets pulls stuff from the other side out. I pray that god releases you from all the pain that you live with daily. I have built such a tolerance to the pain even because I hate to take meds all the time and really don’t like taking the stuff you need to take for pain like that.
Donkey Whisperer Farm
February 6, 2012 at 2:43 am
Thank you for your prayers :}
GOD is amazing and he is control of everything I am a child of Jesus Christ. Pain is a horrific thing to have to live with day after day it truly changes the personality of the person we were before the pain. Every day is truly a precious gift we really do not know when our time is up or the life we have today will change or even our loved ones life is fragile, most people just don’t realize this until it is too late.
I try very hard to live my life with a grateful attitude, I try not to question GOD as well he is GOD he knows the beginning and the end.
I pray my transparency helps you trust GOD in this thing called life. Enjoy every moment you can as life is truly precious, egnore the things that are not important.
GOD bless you!