This is a beautiful maple tree on the Donkey Whisperer Farm, I hope you enjoy this tree as much as we do.
GOD is a faithful GOD we are given the strength to lean on GOD and hold tight to GOD but this takes diligence, prayer, reading the bible, being humble, listening to praise music, attending church, tithing, helping others. It seems GOD will use us to help others and the more we help others the more help will come our way. GOD uses us to help others and this becomes more of a blessing for us than the person we helped, never forget that you and you alone have a special gift to help another living human or animal.
Pain and trauma is not from GOD as we live in a fallen world we are not in heaven yet, I work at remembering that GOD can make life easier and GOD will restore everything stolen from our life. How do we know GOD is in control and still on the throne because we are children of GOD in Jesus Christ precious name. GOD is a faithful GOD he restores everything in abundance stolen from us if we trust him.
Here is a beautiful video shared by Petra Christensen at Parelli showing regular people helping a whale this video made me cry as I love all the animals of the world that our father in heaven created with a special place for the whales as they are the most intriguing to me. I have seen the whales in the Puget Sound while in a boat several times they are truly amazing.
What if the people in the boat decided to not try to help the whale? What if they just rowed away? Thank GOD they did the right thing and restored the whale to her life. Amazing what people can do when they try.
Encouragement and comfort:
In the day of trouble he will hide me in His shelter; in the secret place of His tent will he hide me; He will set me high upon a rock. Psalm 27:5
GOD will cover me with his wings; I will be safe in his care; his faithfulness will protect and defend me. I need not fear any dangers in the night or sudden attacks in the day. Psalm 91:4-5
And this small temporary trouble I suffer will bring me tremendous eternal glory, much greater than the trouble. For I fix my attention not on things that are seen but on things that are unseen. What can be seen last only for a time, but what cannot be seen lasts forever. Corinthians 4:17-18
I call out to GOD in Jesus Christ precious name, the GOD who holds me together. He sends orders from Heaven and save me. GOD delivers generous love. GOD delivers generous love, he makes good on his word. Psalm 57:2-3
GOD bless you and your family two and four-legged!
I received an e-mail this morning wanting to know how to go about this task? I highly suggest studying under the home study program of Parelli 30 days free. Parelli has the best home study program available to teach you how to teach your donkey to ride. Parelli also offer a wonderful social network program to meet Parelli trainers working in your area and students all across the world.
Preparation is the key to training in natural equine training and lot’s of patience with donkeys. Donkeys are intelligent and require a plan of action every time you are working with them, please remember less is more for all equine. When you ask your beloved equine to do a new task ensure you understand how to ask them and release the pressure immediately after they do it right. Always end short training sessions with the equine doing something right. Kinda like when you were a kid and you were in school and a teacher would end the class with making you feel stupid? Did you ever want to go back to that teacher again? Nope. One of the reasons I love Parelli home study is they truly care about the equine. They teach the human partner to be a partner, end each session with a good feeling for the equine and they are clear that love is not enough to train and stay safe, Parelli has tools to help you stay safe, rope halter, carrot stick, seven games and much, much more. Working with equine is very serious business and safety should always be your number one concern for you and your beloved equine.
Please remember that all equine (donkey, horses and mules) must be given the basic training and physical strength exercises before riding them. It is not fair to the equine to just hop on and expect them to carry the humans weight without prior physical strength training. It is not fair to hop on and expect them to understand how to turn, whoa and back up without training. Think how you would feel if a person hopped on your back, stuck a bit in your mouth, kicked you in the ribs to go while speaking in a foreign language? All of the preparation in riding can be taught on the ground before swinging the leg over the equine give Parelli home study a try it works. Check out the live forum on the donkey whisperer to ask questions and look at all the new free information for training ideas and health and well-being of our beloved equine.
GOD bless you and your family two and four-legged!
Seems like some days, weeks, months and even years can feel like a severe cold winter hard to get moving hard to stay motivated just want a warm blanket. Equine (horse, donkey, mule), cats, dogs really help me out with these seasons. When I go to their barn and feed them, clean up, care, rub, talk to them they are always grateful to see me I work very hard to stay in their neutral emotional place just enjoying every day the best I can. My cats and dogs are always in the house with me and they play a very important role in my recovery.
I feel the need to say Thank You to all the care takers in the world they are in a very difficult job and it is really hard to work and care for a sick person. Without these angels GOD has placed in the world, life would be impossible for all the sick people and I know first hand how important it is to feel loved and have people take care of me and my farm when I was physically incapacitated after the semi truck hit me.
Do you know a human angel caring for a sick or hurting person or animal? Please pause a moment and say a little prayer for this person and if you can give them a thank you note or a day off to go to the movies with a friend. A simple thank you can refill their gas tank in life and recharge their battery with the end result making the world a better place.
Are you a caretaker? Please consider allocating time for yourself and love yourself as no human understands you like you do. I understand how hard this is but just like we must be planning for retirement we should also be planning for a healthy happy life. If we are constantly pouring our heart and soul out to someone who is incapable of sharing good things with us we start to burn out and our life becomes too much work and not enough fun. I have learned that having fun is not an option it is a necessity as I feel better when I get to do fun things with people around me who love me and appreciate me. Sometimes we just have to contract some work out and if we look at it this way “I’m creating jobs and helping feed a family” and I get some time off life is a little more easier. Perhaps you have a financial difficulty at this time I know as we had a very hard time after the semi truck accident bills came that we had no plan for. I bartered with my angel and massage therapist and it was a win-win situation perhaps this can help you or your loved one bartering works.
I am happy to say that I am moving forward just completed Physical Therapy after going consistently for nine months very difficult, two times a week. I go to acupuncture once a month for immune system and the doctor visits are quiet again, thank GOD. Now the hard part comes for me to go on my own to the gym and just do it, no physical therapist pushing me harder to be the best I can be! I have good days and bad days still but the bad days are getting fewer and the good days are getting longer and for this I am grateful to GOD.
I just keep on pushing forward and believing that GOD can heal everything and take the pain, I am happy to report the pain is much better now, suffer towards the end of the day and at night but most mornings are good. I am very grateful for all of my blessings and for each and every one of the people GOD has placed in my life to help me heal most importantly my husband Scott. I am grateful to GOD for all the people who pray for a complete healing and remove the pain so I can get well to help others navigate life. I make my husband Scott take off on his Harley and get away as much as possible he comes home very relaxed and recharged. We have to find that one thing that recharges our batteries in life otherwise we just sit in neutral in life and time keeps on moving on.
Do you have some great ideas for caretakers?
Please leave a comment and I will post so everyone can benefit!
GOD bless you and your family two and four legs!
GOD bless you and your family two and four legs!
Donkeys Can Be Slow To respond, Slow To Move
“Donkeys need us humans to become a person with a plan, most importantly a human the donkey can respect while having no fear. A human trainer using a creative and innovative plan to make things interesting. Donkeys get bored much faster than the horse and their ability to learn is different from the horse or mule (1/2 horse 1/2 donkey.”
How do donkeys learn different from the horse?
“Donkeys must be tamed before teaching them any task; riding, leading, picking up the hoof, taking a walk on the lead, and more. Horses prefer this method too! Please be patient and remember you are on Donkey Time “kinda like living in a vacation place like Hawaii life is easy and slow in Donkey Time.”
Donkeys being trained successfully require a safe, fair, loving home where they feel their human partner is the leader of their herd. Donkeys have a very difficult time learning from a stranger or doing anything for a stranger without their human leader helping.
People make jokes all the time to me about donkeys “oh your little or big ass. “ I am quick to reply Ass is reserved for the two legged human, I think it don’t say it and yes I am a donkey whisperer for humans too. :)
Learning how to train a donkey really helps with the humans in our life that can be an ass as it requires patience, love, boundaries and understanding. I like to say give everyone the three-second rule to correct the behavior in a fair and practical way no abuse, this works on humans who step over boundaries too.
What is the three-second rule?
Wait for the animal to make a mistake and correct the mistake within three seconds without abuse but always staying safe as safety is number one. If we wait more than three seconds the animal has forgot what they did wrong and can not learn the correct behavior. People need boundaries too, I have learned it is best to make a correction with another human within three seconds not wait six months or even a year to tell another person about our personal boundary.
Donkeys are visual learners:
If you bring a new donkey into your farm let them have time to soak, stand back and watch you clean the feet of your honor equine, ride them, brush them, you get the picture. Donkeys learn by standing back and watching our Mammoth donkey RIo learned to open the door simply by watching me and my husband open the door and shut the barn door. Use this training tool to your advantage.
Taming a new donkey:
I am a home study student of Parelli I always start out with the friendly game, rope halter, carrot stick, no abuse. I place the new donkey in a small space, talk calmly to the donkey, look to see if the donkey will take a piece of apple or carrot. A donkey scared to death will not eat and this is a warning sign to proceed with caution in taming this donkey remember to keep your face away from their hips, rear as donkeys can kick side ways like a cow. If the donkey will not catch me I wait, sit down read a book and eventually the introverted donkey will come up to me. After I have established that I am no threat to the donkey then I can move on to the next step.
With the rope haler on I begin by saying whoa in a small space, rub their face, try to stay calm and keep my emotions in neutral, tie them up so they cannot move to start this taming as most not all donkeys can be introverted; and then all of a sudden they can get aggressive when scared i.e., kicking, striking or running off with the human.
Donkeys are very physical equine it is important to remember any kind of equine (horse, donkey or mule) can be dangerous you must take responsibility for your actions. I have learned that most tamed donkeys want their loving time first, scratching, rubbing, talking to them and they love a healthy treat i.e., 1/2 green apple a couple of pieces of carrot. Learn Parelli and study the left brain introvert and right brain introvert as this program will explain the psychology of the equine in great detail. Mr. Parelli started out with a mule so he truly understands the patience, consistency, time and all that is needed to be successful with donkeys, mules and of course horses! I personally am very grateful for the Parelli home study and I am sure all equine (donkeys, horses, mules) are grateful too as I have seen and heard of some very horrific training techniques for donkeys, mules and horses.
Humans are natural predators
All equine can sense who is a good human and who is a bad human (abuse and natural techniques) when the donkey, horse or mule is afraid they do whatever it takes to stay safe. I highly suggest any person who is new to training donkeys, mules and horses pick a tamed, not abused equine first. Remember all equine need a buddy to live with for their health and safety and donkeys are most happy when living with another donkey and horses are most happy when living with another horse.
Why Do I Love Donkeys and Mules?
Donkeys do not freak out or go right brain on adrenalin very often as they are seriously into counting every calorie, donkeys have a high self-preservation skill. Donkeys can think all of the time no need to get in a hurry as they understand mistakes happen when they get into a hurry.
Donkeys are usually “not always” introverted thus people call them stubborn (some horses and ponies act this way with boring work and no motivation, inspiration opportunities) they stop moving their feet, sometimes they just lay down. The need for a great leader is evident in these equine!
The key to success in training is a human who wants to be a partner to the equine and a human partner who has empathy and works hard to inspire and connect with strong safety boundaries. A human who will SLOW down and wait another day for training,wanting the relationship to blossom more than teaching the task. As Parelli says “when you take off the halter all you get is the truth” if your equine leaves you or will not come in to you this is a sign of a relationship problem.
Why do I love horses?
“Horses are majestic and fast, my horse Miss Lily is a quarter horse but she has some speed in her kinda like a sports car, not for everyone but exactly what I needed to get my life back on track she is a natural leader and if she was a wild horse she would fight to the death to stay on top.”
This is her personality and well it’s mine we are truly mirrored together and I understand her needing to move her feet and run and buck get the endorphins pumping as this is my personality too. Miss Lily is a lot of horse and she is always pushing the boundaries and then finally she can stop and think and go to work, in the wrong owners hands she could become a very dangerous horse.
When I think back to all the abuse I have seen of donkeys, horses and mules it makes me want to cry!
Most donkeys are thrown in a pasture with a horse as a pasture mate and well that’s it. “I say you are missing out” Donkeys are good for us humans who work too much, speed around too fast in life as they make us slow down, Donkeys help us humans live on Donkey Time, enjoy the moment GOD has placed in our life as we will never have this moment again. The donkey, horse and mule is a healer and is used for post traumatic stress, physical therapy, and emotional wholeness.
Short training Video of Rio & Melody – before the semi truck accident
Please remember to keep your training sessions short, drilling does not work with equine especially the donkey as they will stop trying. Always teach both sides (right and left) of the equine (horse, donkey & Mule) and remember just like people one side is easier than the other. Try to set the equine up for success so if you are training something new don’t drill and go back to something the equine has mastered and end the training session with the equine succeeding never the opposite.
Please consider another way to train your equine! Stop getting disturbed by your training with your equine break the negative cycle and provide the equine with a successful training class, set them up for success. You chsoe the equine they did not choose you, you are the smart human, you can do this!
Remember to end the short training session (no more than fifteen to twenty minutes per task) with play time something the donkey, mule or horse has mastered and enjoys. A small bite of green grass helps on the way back to the barn, trailer, stall etc as you are connecting with your donkey. I know you are saying they have feed in the barn. Yes, but the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence and this is an opportunity for you to do something your equine wants to do, get a few bites of green grass just a few minutes of your time really makes the relationship stronger. Donkeys demand a connection to learn and horses dream of this kind of training.
Donkeys are not horses with long ears
Please don’t try to make them into something they are not “old cowboy” training does not work for donkeys. It is much easier to attract a positive result with honey than vinegar and this works with people too; family, business, work, neighbors, give it a try to remember to be grateful for everything in your life and be grateful for everything Jesus Christ has given you to steward over. Life is a gift and we must cherish each and every moment.
Just like people have personalities equine (donkey, mule & horse) have horsenalities as Parelli says “pick your equine carefully”. Another important consideration is taking your donkey for walks of grazing allowing them to take a bite here and their with you walking next to them.
Dogs and Donkeys
Please remember Donkeys hate dogs instinctively dogs are predators plan to make the training successful when de-senstizing them don’t let the dog chase at your equine ever. Your carrot stick from Parelli works great to keep the dog in their space if they move in too close to the equine as it just takes one kick and the dog is dead, no do over.
Please remember with GOD driving your life in Jesus Christ name your opportunities are infinity! Be careful what you think, because your thoughts run your life. Proverbs 4:23 NIV
GOD bless you and your family two and four-legged!
I have loved animals since I was a small child, got the fever for horses at the tender age of five. I fell deeply in love with donkeys and mules In my late forties. My love for donkeys, and mules forced me to learn as much as possible for them.
“Donkeys are not horses with long ears.” Melody Johnson, Donkey Whisperer Farm, LLC
“I quickly found a huge gap in education, health and training for these majestic equine, the under dog of the equine world a donkey.”
Why? Donkeys and mules do not bring in large amounts of money like race horses, cutting, dressage.
Donkey Whisperer Farm, LLC opened for business on January, 1st, 2014
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Donkeys are unique they deserve to be treated with dignity, respect and natural training techniques, no bit, no spurs no abuse.
Please remember “training a donkey is a challenge to learn and understand how to best communicate and train them as they do not learn like a horse.” Donkeys are not horses with long ears. Donkeys require us humans to think like a donkey or mule and wait another day for training as donkeys are on donkey time, kinda like being a human in Hawaii everything is slowed way down. Unlike the horse the donkey or mule can think all the time, Donkeys are always on donkey time. Slow way down when working with a donkey or mule, sit down and wait for them to come to you.
Melody teaching Rio steering using no bit or spurs
I have been a student of the Parelli home study program since 2007 right after purchasing my horse (a young filly at twenty months not trained), a nine month old baby mammoth donkey (not trained) and a mini donkey at the age of thirteen. I share honestly why the Parelli home study program works for my horse and donkeys. I am not authorized to teach Parelli as I am not an instructor.
After three short lessons with the Parelli carrot stick Rio now has steering – No bit, no spurs
I am married to my best friend and husband Scott and forever grateful to him for helping me keep my dream of farm living in the midst of trauma. We share our life with one Mammoth donkey, three mini donkey, two rescue standard donkeys, two horses, three dogs and two cats. Our new farm in Sequim, Washington has twenty acres, two horses, two mini donkeys, two standard donkeys and one Mammoth donkey. I am very grateful for all of the blessings and gifts GOD has provided me and my husband as each day is truly a gift, life is truly fragile and precious.
Jesus Christ is amazing! Most importantly I share why Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior and how my husband and I trust GOD to hold us tight in the middle of trauma. GOD is amazing.
Donkeys, horses and mules are healing they help us humans step out of our personal journey in life. To know a donkey will forever change the human who wants to learn and love again. Take a look at this article explaining the donkey much better than I can from Peaceful Valley Donkey Rescue.
I am a survivor of a life threatening motor vehicle accident while riding as a passenger when the driver of the vehicle I was in ran a stop sign, a semi truck fully loaded with cow manure smashed into the passenger door where I was sitting leaving me permanently disabled. Select GOD created a miracle for me to read about the trauma and blessings. After surviving a life threatening car accident so many things change, we continue to thank GOD that our relationship with Jesus Christ is strengthened and reinforced.
We continue to thank GOD for his Miracle of life and healing one day at a time. When I am pressed on every side by troubles, I am not crushed and broken. When I am perplexed because I don’t know why things happen as they do, I don’t give up and quit. 2nd Corinthians 4:8 I pray my transparency gives you hope and the ability to never give up most importantly make Jesus Christ you Lord and Savior. The bible is still my favorite book.
Animals are very healing, they help us humans be grateful for everything in our life and live in the moment.
“If you have something you want to do with your life get going to move towards your dreams and goals as life is fragile and precious.”
GOD bless you and your family two and four-legged!